Are you seeking an affirming space to explore your sexuality or sexual orientation?

Sexual feelings and attractions can change naturally for many people over the course of their lives. Maybe who you find yourself intrigued by or interested in is not the same as who you were previously attracted to. Maybe you are struggling to figure out where you fit in the sea of identity options: queer, gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, straight, and countless others. Maybe you find yourself being less interested in sex or romance than others around you, and you’re wondering if you might be asexual, demisexual, aromantic, demiromantic, or somewhere else on the asexual or aromantic spectrums. Maybe you’re completely unsure about all of this and want a space to explore and possibly figure things out. 

Wherever you’re at in your journey, you may find that exploring your feelings and attractions is crucial to your satisfaction, confidence, and sense of self. Questioning or exploring your identity is by no means a sign of a problem, and the only person who can define your sexual identity is you. However, my work as a queer therapist who is skilled and knowledgeable in areas related to sexuality and sexual/romantic orientation can offer an intentional space for you to clarify desires, attractions, and identities. I also offer support for you to navigate challenges navigating family conflicts, relationships, and a world that may be challenging or oppressive. 

Are you on a journey of exploring, defining, or transitioning your gender, gender presentation, or gender expression?

If you are questioning or exploring your gender, you’re not alone. Maybe you are in the process of learning, discovering, or questioning how you want to express your gender. Maybe you are trying to decide which language feels like the best fit for you: transgender, trans man, trans woman, genderqueer, genderfluid, nonbinary, enby, two-spirit, agender, cisgender, or somewhere else within (or without) the beautiful galaxy of gender options. Maybe you are trying to get support around your medical, physical, and/or social transition, or gender dysphoria. Maybe you feel isolated, confused, or scared to face challenging relationships, family experiences, or social environments. Maybe you have not yet shared these feelings or experiences with others, and you’d like support to have whatever conversations you want to have with others in your life about your gender. Maybe you’re wanting to find or more deeply feel the experiences of gender euphoria as as you’re coming into a deeper or fuller or more expansive understanding of yourself.

Coming to know your own feelings and thoughts about your gender (and possibly sharing that with others) is a highly personal experience and may feel overwhelming and vulnerable. I believe that the only person who can define your gender is you. I also believe that having support from a supportive and affirming gender therapist can be incredibly helpful along the way. In therapy, you will have a space to focus on what your gender means to you, and address any changes happening in your life or relationships. I will support you to gain insight into your process and what choices are right for you, and can make referrals to medical professionals as needed.

Are you in need of a letter of support for gender-affirming medical care?

For clients seeking hormones, hormone blockers, surgery, transition-related fertility preservation, or other forms of gender-affirming medical care, I believe strongly in the informed consent model. However, many doctors, surgeons, and insurance companies continue to require referral letters. If needed, I am able to provide thorough assessments and write recommendation letters for medical resources or procedures in line with WPATH Standards of Care.

I am part of the Gender Affirming Letter Access Project (GALAP) network, “a group of transgender, nonbinary, and allied mental health clinicians in the U.S. who believe in improving access to letters for clients who are seeking gender-affirming medical care. We resist the harmful practices of gatekeeping and believe in an informed consent model where clients can affirm their [gender] without the steep cost of sessions with mental health professionals and reductionist clinical practices. As such, we want to create a movement towards to providing free and low-cost letters for gender affirming access to medical care.”

I have a commitment to making single assessment sessions and letters of support accessible and free to Colorado residents who are seeking my services solely for this purpose. If my schedule or availability does not allow me to see you within the time frame needed for your letter, I will refer you to other providers who have also committed to being a part of the GALAP network. Even when my practice is full, I typically still have a limited number of openings available for this service. As long as your schedule is flexible enough to schedule a single session within my availability, I'd be happy to support you with this process! I typically set up a brief consult (10-15 min) to make sure that working together for a letter would be a good fit for both of us. We can then schedule a single 60-minute session to go over the information for a letter. I usually have the letter written and sent to you for review within a day or two, and will also make any requested edits quickly after that, if needed. I never charge any fees for the letter itself or my time spent writing it, and I also offer pro bono (no fee) single assessment sessions to any client who needs it. If you feel strongly about paying me for your session, and you have financial stability or privilege, and you do not have Medicaid insurance, I will accept payment.

Your whole self matters here. You matter here.

Maybe you’re questioning or unsure of your gender or sexuality. Or maybe you’re confident in yourself, but just want to work on other concerns with a therapist who “gets it.” Either way, it’s important to find a good fit with a therapist you can trust will hold space for you. (The last thing any of us need is an experience of being invalidated, questioned, or misgendered in therapy.) I have ample experience, both personally and professionally, exploring topics of gender and sexuality. I am queer and trans/nonbinary/genderqueer myself, and am familiar with the challenges that queer, transgender, and gender expansive people face and the unique struggles we must overcome in the world. I am also very intentional about ensuring that our work together is focused on you and your unique experiences, however similar to or different from mine they are.

My work as a therapist who specializes in gender and sexuality is also not ONLY focused on those aspects of you. I am comfortable discussing and integrating all of your identities and experiences, including race, ethnicity, culture, spirituality, history, disabilities, and learning & processing styles into our work together. I am passionate about social justice, and I understand the realities, complexities, and impacts of oppression, privilege, and power on everyday life. If you have questions about working with me, please don’t hesitate to contact me.

Your family matters here too.

I also offer family therapy to support the whole families in maintaining or increasing connection and care with LGBTQ+ family members. Even when families care and want to learn or figure things out, I understand that mistakes can be made and experiences of trust and safety don’t just come automatically. Navigating experiences of estrangement and conflict within families is a passion of mine, and I’m happy to support motivated, engaged families to become stronger and more resilient together.

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Will R. Logan, LCSW, LMFT
Pronouns: they/them